A wedding is often a celebration of the couple’s unique styles and personalities, but it can be easy to get caught up in traditional feminine elements. For some grooms, this can feel like they’re being left behind amidst the sea of sequins and floral arrangements. This week, we’re shining a spotlight on the groom’s perspective, providing inspiration for those who want to add their own touch to the big day. Whether you’re a groom looking to incorporate your favorite hobbies or passions into the celebration, or a couple seeking a more balanced blend of masculine and feminine elements, we’ve got some ideas to get you started. From the food and decor to the entertainment and beyond, our suggestions are designed to help you put your stamp on your wedding day without adhering too closely to traditional male stereotypes. Instead, think about what makes you unique and how you can celebrate those aspects of yourself with your partner. Check out our ideas for making your wedding day a true reflection of your personality, interests, and values.
A Bar for the Boy
A modern twist on traditional cigar bars, offering a unique and sophisticated touch to your special day. But why stop there? Consider dedicating an entire station to a shared love or passion that speaks to you as a couple. For instance, if you’re both sweet-tooths, set up a doughnut bar or create a s’mores paradise for guests of all ages. If coffee is your go-to, offer a specialty brew or signature cocktail instead. The possibilities are endless! Having stations like these not only provide a memorable experience for your loved ones but also serve as a fantastic conversation starter. So, take the opportunity to personalize your wedding celebration and share one of your favorite things with your guests.
Tipple of Choice
In recent years, his and hers cocktails have taken center stage, offering a refreshing alternative to traditional drink options. While a well-crafted bellini is always a delight, it’s exciting to mix things up with creative concoctions that reflect personal tastes. With endless possibilities, consider collaborating with your caterer or experimenting at home to craft unique beverages like an old fashioned, beer shandy, white Russian, ginger gin fizz, rhubarb mojito, or mango margarita. Alternatively, visit a trendy cocktail bar and let the menu inspire you, as it’s often where the best ideas are born.
Dulcet Tones
Imagine a wedding aesthetic that embodies understated elegance, where refined minimalism takes center stage. Giuli & Giordi’s photo on Green Wedding Shoes sets the tone for a masculine celebration that prioritizes subtle sophistication over loud statements. This is about harnessing the power of simplicity, where thoughtful touches yield maximum impact. Think lush foliage and delicate flowers in muted tones like white, green, brown, and grey. The palette is punctuated by raw textures such as timber, glass, and chalkboard, lending a sense of natural refinement to the overall design. In this world of subtle yet striking decor, chic simplicity reigns supreme.
Minimal Bloom Buttonholes
While some grooms-to-be might appreciate a bouquet of flowers, others may not be as enthusiastic about the idea. The good news is that there are plenty of alternative options that can still make for a stylish and masculine boutonniere. Consider incorporating succulents, pinecones, driftwood, thistles, berries, foliage, feathers or Billy buttons to add some rugged charm to your wedding day look.
Fun & Games
While it’s understandable that you might want to incorporate your love of sports into your special day, it’s likely that your partner has different ideas for a wedding celebration. Instead of wearing your hockey jersey or using team colors as the theme, consider alternative ways to bring this passion into the event. This could involve organizing activities and games that everyone can enjoy, such as a friendly game of croquet, corn hole, giant Jenga, horseshoes or bocce. Not only will these games provide entertainment for your guests, but they also offer a unique and memorable experience.
Rough Around The Edges
Embracing Unconventional Charm: A Refreshing Alternative to Traditional Weddings
For some grooms, perfectionism can be overwhelming. But what if you’re not a fan of polished details? Why not celebrate your special day in a way that reflects your unique style?
Men who prefer a more relaxed approach to wedding planning may feel out of place amidst the elegance of traditional ballrooms. To make yourself feel at ease, why not opt for a non-traditional setting?
Imagine trading in a swanky bar for a craft beer tap, vintage furniture for salvaged wood pallets, and fancy favors for something more homemade.
The rise of rustic, DIY, and shabby chic weddings is no coincidence. These themes perfectly capture the essence of modern couples’ personalities – a blend of rugged individuality and playful creativity.
Favourite Foods
In recent years, weddings have witnessed a shift away from traditional reception fare like beef or salmon, with couples opting for personalized cuisine that reflects their individual tastes. Gone are the days of bland, one-size-fits-all canapés; instead, we’re seeing an influx of bold, masculine-inspired flavors and styles on the wedding menu. Think sliders and pizza slices at cocktail hour, hearty mini steak starters, or even chip butties served late into the night. And why stop there? Many couples are embracing a full-on foodie experience, with entire tables indulging in succulent hog roasts, mouth-watering BBQs, or comforting Sunday roasts. As we say goodbye to dainty petit fours and hello to chorizo charcuterie and street food eats, the possibilities for wedding catering have never been more exciting!
Industrial Complex
Industrial chic has gained popularity among both women and men for their weddings, offering an edgy twist on traditional celebration settings. Imagine trading in traditional white tents for gritty warehouses, swapping crystal chandeliers for exposed copper pipes and vintage lightbulbs, and opting for rustic benches over lavish chair coverings. While it’s possible to still inject a touch of romance into this industrial aesthetic, starting with a blank slate will allow you to create a one-of-a-kind, factory-inspired atmosphere that’s equal parts cool and captivating.
